My birth name is Danita. I go by the name Llenar now – an 8 vibration. Ask the Chinese.
I am an ordained minister, consultant, trainer, teacher and educator with 20+ years experience working with individuals and groups, both nationally and internationally. My workshops/trainings have ranged in content from vision and mission statement creation; team building, leadership, change management, self-esteem and empowerment of teachers and students and computer programming.
I have a Bachelor of Arts degree in Spanish. I am a Senior Facilitator of the International Black Summit, a Life Skills Coach, a certified “Why . . .” teacher, and a State of Illinois substitute teacher. I am also a recipient of the Chicago Urban League Excellence Award.
I’ve traveled around the US, Canada, the Carribean, Europe and Africa. I’d like to visit Alaska and Australia.
I’ve worked as a laundry folder, typist, secretary, administrative assistant, 5th grade school teacher, computer programmer, computer programming instructor, course developer and trainer, partner in a t-shirt company, leadership training consultant, personal life coach and consultant.
I live my life from the perspective that nobody out there is doing anything to me, that whatever happens in my life is similar to a computer printout or readout of what’s going on inside ME at any given moment.
Most of my life all I wanted was to be happy. I wanted to have a good relationship with my parents and couldn’t understand why all the turmoil and strife and unhappiness was going on.
I’m happy to say that somewhere around the age of 40 (is that what the story about the Israelites wondering in the desert for 40 years is REALLY all about? that until about the age of 40 human being is wandering in the desert????? I think so) after years of doing inner work (attending workshops, seminars, listening to tapes, watching videos, etc.) I was attending the Landmark Education Forum and I had the breakthrough insight that my entire relationship with my mother was one of domination and avoiding domination!!!
I’ve been a student of metaphysics since the age of 19. For the past 14 years I’ve been using my life as a laboratory for the No Out There philosophy of living life without Blame. I’ve been effectively coaching individuals using the No Out There approach of 100% responsibility for the past 7 years.
The 3-part No Out There workshop evolved from observing the results of using the philosophy in my own life, keeping track of what worked and didn’t work, passing those techniques and practices on to family, friends, students and coaching clients and recording their reports of results they experienced, refining what worked and didn’t work for them.
I don’t know if I am happy now. I do know that I am content and at peace inside. Now I intend I be a TRILLIONAIRESS.
